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		<title>28 Days with Paul (Week 4 -Dealing with Conflict) Nov 29, 2009</title>
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		<title>28 Days with Paul: Day 11 (Acts 13:42-52)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Sunday we will be walking through this text as a church community.  I am really looking forward to that. For my devotional time today, here is what stood out in the text: &#8220;44 On the next Sabbath almost the &#8230; <a href="http://blog.mytruelife.org/2009/11/19/28-days-with-paul-day-11-acts-1342-52/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">This Sunday we will be walking through this text as a church community.  I am really looking forward to that.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">For my devotional time today, here is what stood out in the text:</p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span><strong>&#8220;44</strong> On the next Sabbath almost the whole city gathered to hear the word of the Lord.&#8221; (Acts 13:44)</span></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>&#8220;The whole city&#8221;</strong>&#8230; wow..  Raleigh/Durham/Chapel hill is exploding with growth and does not appear to be slowing down any time soon.  I say in a blog a way to think about this growth.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;It took Raleigh 178 years to reach 122,830 people (Census 1970). By next year&#8217;s Census, Raleigh will likely have grown about 122,830 people since 2000.&#8221;</p>
<p>Read more: http://www.city-data.com/forum/raleigh-durham-chapel-hill-cary/815752-raleighs-population.html#ixzz0XEckLIBY</p></blockquote>
<p>TrueLife will not hide inside a building and hope the community gets better on its own.  We must learn to communicate the Gospel in a way that is understandable to our emerging culture.  Until the whole city has heard the &#8220;the Word of the Lord&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>28 Days with Paul: Day 10 (Acts 13:13) &#8211; When People Leave TrueLife</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 18:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the toughest things about pastoring is people leaving your church. As a pastor, I don&#8217;t talk about it too much, but we all know it happens. Sometimes it is natural progression of time: job change, college, a move &#8230; <a href="http://blog.mytruelife.org/2009/11/18/28-days-with-paul-day-10-acts-1313-when-people-leave-truelife/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>One of the toughest things about pastoring is people leaving your church.  As a pastor, I don&#8217;t talk about it too much, but we all know it happens.  Sometimes it is natural progression of time:  job change, college, a move to be with family, etc. Sometimes leaving is a result of the church&#8217;s characteristics: teaching, music, children&#8217;s, life groups, etc.</p>
<p>In a small line of this week&#8217;s text, volumes are spoken:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;13From Paphos, Paul and his companions sailed to Perga in Pamphylia, <strong>where John left them to return to Jerusalem</strong>.&#8221; (Acts 13:13, emphasis mine)</p></blockquote>
<p>Prior to the second missionary journey a disagreement between Paul &amp; Barnabas caused a split in leadership:</p>
<blockquote><p><sup id="en-NIV-27466">&#8220;36</sup>Some time later Paul said to Barnabas, &#8220;Let us go back and visit the brothers in all the towns where we preached the word of the Lord and see how they are doing.&#8221; <sup id="en-NIV-27467">37</sup>Barnabas wanted to take John, also called Mark, with them, <sup id="en-NIV-27468">38</sup>but Paul did not think it wise to take him, because he had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not continued with them in the work. <sup id="en-NIV-27469">39</sup>They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company. Barnabas took Mark and sailed for Cyprus, <sup id="en-NIV-27470">40</sup>but Paul chose Silas and left, commended by the brothers to the grace of the Lord. <sup id="en-NIV-27471">41</sup>He went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches.&#8221; (Acts 15:36-41)</p></blockquote>
<p>Here some principles when I follow when people leave:</p>
<p>1. I will never give up on people: not them and not me.</p>
<p>2. The story is about Jesus.  I will not make the story about them or me.</p>
<p>3. I expect people to grow for the better.  I may not have the leadership they need, and they may not have the right gifting for TrueLife a this moment.  Both of these can change.  It did for John Mark.</p>
<p>4. TrueLifers are TrueLife Church; therefore, I choose not to attack people.  I will not tear people down because all I will do is send broken people to other communities of faith. I will fuel people on their faith journey, and I will not be an anchor to their spirit or attitude.</p>
<p>5. God chose to give freewill to mankind, and I can not take that away. I will not take on a role that God chose not to take.  I am going to honor God&#8217;s wisdom of giving humanity the ability to choose.  I can not spend my days trying to manipulate the behavior of people.  God doesn&#8217;t, and my goal is to lead like Him.</p>
<p>You never know how where God is going to take you on this adventure.  Grumpiness does not travel well, so leave it behind.</p>
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		<title>28 Days with Paul: Days 1-3</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[28 Days with Paul: Days 1-3 During this first week, the goal is to get know the Saul of Tarsus prior to the first missionary journey.  Often in reading biblical text, we can dehumanize the characters involved.  Pre-Acts 9 Saul &#8230; <a href="http://blog.mytruelife.org/2009/11/12/28-days-with-paul-days-1-3/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>During this first week, the goal is to get know the Saul of Tarsus prior to the first missionary journey.  Often in reading biblical text, we can dehumanize the characters involved.  Pre-Acts 9 Saul still has a lot in common with the Post-Acts 9 Paul.  The transformation on the Damascus road did not morph Saul into a robot.  He still dealt with the good, bad, and ugly characteristics of his personality and up-bringing.</p>
<p>Just like us.  I believe that the transformational process is instantaneous.  It is a moment of saying &#8220;yes&#8221; on our Damascus road.  However, the metamorphosis  of our spirit, internal character, and external actions is a journey.  The progressive nature of this journey begs us to reflect upon how we are changing.  Are we becoming more or less like Christ?</p>
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